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Dating this hot chick? On second thought...

If you’re single and looking for a dyke date, don’t be so fast in setting up an eyeball with that chatmate. There are a few lesbian dates that we absolutely MUST avoid. For decreased headaches, stalkers and heartaches, it will be best to avid the following:

1. The extreme feminist – you crack a joke at a cute girl’s butt and she stares at you with daggers, muttering something about objectifying women. Come on, we all know that, but isn’t the world going to be a hundred times more boring with out mentioning a few butt jokes?

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I’m not good at lying. So if you catch a lesbian lying, that would probably be me. You can easily tell little lying lesbian me is not telling the truth when I either:

a. Avert my eyes while speaking. There’s scientific research somewhere that says women tend to look left when inventing a story, seeking their more creative right brain
b. Sound specially excited. “You’re movie was soooo great! Specially the part where, uh, at the end…” (mentally banging head against wall for stupid statement)
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Gf and I spent 2 weeks in Japan last Novemeber. Of course, we wanted to check out the lesbian and gay scene.  We went bar-hopping at Osaka’s Doyama-cho and we had a splendid time with the nice lesbian hang outs there – Lupu had a nice and chatty lesbian owner (Yu) and we met a cute gay guy hanging out there. We also went to Barfly and the gay owner was so sweet, he even gave us a DVD of his drag show. The typical spend was 700 Yen for a drink… which is already quite a stretch, but since this was Japan then everything’s overpriced anyway.

So it was natural that we wanted to repeat the experience in Tokyo.

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Are heading off to your first lesbian bar outing? Before you head out, take a few minutes to go over your purse and check if you have these things that you might actually need:

1. Breath mints – Of course you brushed your lesbian teeth before heading out. But undoubtedly you’ll swig a few bar drinks down and contrary to popular opinion, its not particularly great when you get close to someone and spew out alcohol breath.

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I have not been able to post anything for almost a month, and with that I apologize to the loyal readers of this blog.

Lately, I’ve literally run out of things lesbian to talk about. There have been many things going on.

Like the recent tragedy that befell our family a week ago when typhoon Ondoy (international name Ketsana). The whole Philippines was victimized by a raging typhoon that dumped a week’s worth of rain. If you haven’t heard about it, or for those who are not tired of it yet, the gist of the calamity can be found here:

The floodwater reached the roof of our house and we’ve done nothing but clean and wash everything for the past week. I personally have blow dried photos – only about 10% of my childhood album was recoverable.

With the tragedy that has fallen our country, and many will be mad at me for this thought, but I actually got ashamed that all these years I have been doing nothing but gripe about gay and lesbian rights, devoting thousands of man hours for it, when so many people in our country don’t even have food and shelter.

I’m greatly reconsidering moving my advocacy priority into a greener and more sustainable area – that of saving the earth.

Should lesbiand and gays be refocusing on the green movement?

Climate change has such a big impact on everyone, straight and gay people alike, that if we don’t all fight for it, then there would be no lesbians on earth to even have the basic of rights.

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Have you ever had the experience where you were such in a tight lesbian spot, you had to defend yourself?

No, I’m not talking about *that* spot. I’m talking about dangerous and abuse situations we lesbians could be in. Ironically, these dangerous situations are not from our heterosexual counterparts but from us lesbians ourselves.

Lesbian abuse. Sadly, it does exist. It is an invisible aspect of of our lesbian movement we wish to turn away from. Sadly, it does happen, although maybe not at a rate that our heterosexual counterparts have, but it exists.

A documentary called She Stole My Voice talks about lesbian rape, and it is an eye opener. When I first watch it, I didn’t want heterosexuals to see it. I was afraid they would think less of us. But then I realized that it is a reality, and covering it up would be a disservice to the same rights we are fighting for.

She Stole My Voice: Lesbian abuse documentary

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I’m off to a lesbian party. Wish me luck!

Will I be sleepy lesbian party girl?

Or happy lesbian party girl?

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I mentioned in a previous post that I was excited to go to Baguio for the Pride March. Well, I did, and though GF and I drove for a total of 8 hours each, it was a great trip with the greatest lesbian friends.

It was nice marching with people who understood you and who fights for the same rights – rights that most ordinary people take for granted.

Here is a collection of the Top 20 best photos I’ve collected from different friends as we attended the march:

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I know, I know, being a lesbian requires me to actually be politically correct and socialist and indie, but I have to have these guilty pleasures, or else I’ll go crazy!

But hiding behind the closet about these lesbian guilty pleasures are driving me crazy anyway. I’m coming clean and listing down the guilty pleasures I have, just please don’t throw a piece of stinky tofu at me!
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I hope it will make yours too. Its just amusing how lesbians interact, and how there are so much different kinds of lesbians out there This lesbian catfight got me giggling through out the day. It really is amazing how witty dykes can be.

Anyway, before we get too engrossed, I don’t agree with cheating but I can’t really blame lesbians who do. Each of us have our own reasons, right or wrong, and it is actually our decision (Am I sound like defending myself here? Lol I hope not). If I get into a lesbian catfight with anyone about this, I promise I won’t take sides.

Anyway, catch the conversation below:

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